Ok, I’ll admit it :::

Getting married was kind of like a month long (or maybe longer) vacation from the real world. Wedding planning kind of took over, and at least in my case, once it’s over there is a lot of cocooning. By that I mean all I wanted to do was a whole lot of NOTHING. I was so physically, mentally and emotionally exhausted (in the best way possible) and I wanted to just settle into being a wife. I used my gorgeous Caribbean blue le Creuset pot (once) to make a really amazing chicken dish that my husband now pleads with me to make again. This is newsworthy because my kitchen is mostly used as our dog’s bedroom and the counters make a great shelf for all the gadgets I don’t use and our nightly delivery order.

I released the frantic state that I was in for the better part of a year, and instead took longer showers, started to meditate again, got back into a workout routine that felt good as opposed to one that was goal driven towards my wedding physique. That meant switching my hard-core weights and cardio with a full week of feel good yoga, and skipping some days if I felt like it! I pampered myself and kind of just took time for me, and time for us.  It was exactly what I needed. I tried to rest and get back to homeostasis.

I took it easy. Well, that’s not entirely true. I did get back to getting clients and work done the following week and I did a live Illustration event for our company Chic Sketch at Sephora Times Square with Allure Magazine and Lancome (which was AMAZING by the way and super exciting to partner with these great brands that I admire!)

All in all I definitely rolled it back a few notches. I treated myself to foods not on the wedding diet, I stopped work at 2 am instead of 4 am (ah!), I listened to my body and I found myself zoning out a lot. I’m human. It’s ok. I had to give myself a break and I deserved it after all of the stress I put myself under for the last few months as the wedding got closer.

If you haven’t noticed I put a lot of pressure on myself.  I’m here to say, if you do too and you need it, listen to your body and recharge!

Recharge, Reimagine. Getting married, and then BEING married felt like I just wanted to yell out “HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!” and open up a brand new calendar. I felt like it was a fresh start, a clean slate and a world of open possibilities. Now that this amazing, and huge goal was checked off – it was nice to feel proud of myself and fulfilled with my accomplishments.
Designing and executing my wedding dress, making a TON of decisions, funding a good portion of the wedding, co-designing the stationary, working hand in hand with our wedding planner. Not to mention finally absorbing the fact that we launched and promoted a brand new company Chic Sketch in the last 3 months prior to the wedding. It went so fast that I didn’t even have time to take it all in. There is a lot of coordination that goes on.  As an entrepreneur, it seems a lot of times that I keep doing and doing but don’t always have a big WIN to show for it. Occasionally that happens but its mostly after a huge event or launch which doesn’t exactly occur every day.  I thrive on the reveal and that’s just me.  I recognize I need to take more pride in the daily wins and that is something I’m going to work on, but never being completely satisfied is part of what makes me a great entrepreneur.

I digress.  Back to my point – recharging for me means reimagining my next steps and that is something I love doing.  For me it’s planning the rest of our summer and the fall. We have a lot of big things in store and I’m so excited!!!!

What would it mean for you to reimagine your next 3 – 6 months?

Reimagining things also means reimagining my blog, my businesses, my art, my writing, my fashion design, where I want to take it and what that’s going to look like.  It’s not like I have all the answers yet (some are being fine tuned now) but its so nice to be in this stage where the possibilities are endless.

Zoning IN For me, when I zone out that’s because my body is telling me I need a break. The only way to completely zone IN is to ZONE OUT, BIG TIME.  Put the pen down. Take the pressure off. Take a walk. Take a bath. Get to bed. Go on an adventure. Plan a trip.

It’s summer. If you feel you are zoning out, do what your body is asking of you. Take a day off for Gosh Sake! It IS summer (I know it doesn’t feel like it with this weather) Take a long weekend. Do some yoga.

Your body will tell you what to do. Listen to it.
Only after you have sufficiently zoned out can you zone back in.
This is where the genius moment can slip in and hit you right smack in your face while you are out talking a walk in the park.  Your epiphany will happen.

I love taking a notebook and just sitting outside and seeing what amazing ideas my brain can come up with when I turn the electronics off and let my inner voice guide me.

This weekend, (maybe you can even start today) take a load off, roll your sleeves up, take your hair down and relax.  Happy 4^th of July!

Hope that inspires you!
xoxo
Emily

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